We are so focused on the good part of our relationship that we tend to ignore the red flags which might be telling us that something is fishy and that your partner might be cheating on you.
When things get busy in life, you know like stress at work or some family feud, a partner is who we run to for comfort. But what if that partner is not someone you actually thought he or she is?
I did some research and will give you a few red flag for you to find out if your partner might be cheating on you!
1. Hidden phone or another sim
Phone has all the secrets of a person, literally all of them. And if your partner if not comfortable sharing that personal space of his other with you then there is definitely something wrong.
If you see them on phone even when you are sitting across the table, that’s a red flag.
If you are out on a date and his or her phone is constantly racing down or in the pocket, it’s a red flag.
2. No future plans
If you have been in a relationship with someone for quite a while there are major chances that you have discussed your future with them.
If there comes a point when it just stops or if you bring up the topic but they shoot you down, it’s a red flag.
Don’t continue your relationship with someone who doesn’t see you in their future.
3. No heart to heart
There are no emotional conversation between you two anymore. It takes you a lot of courage to actually talk to him or her about your personal issues that you might be going through.
And even if they do listen, it just doesn’t seem like they care. Sad, right?
All fun and games are important but being comforted by your partner is super important.
4. More intimacy
Do you ever get that feeling that your partner is suddenly way too much sexually active? Wanting it all the freaking time.
But you ignore this fact thinking that its great that your relationship is healthy in this manner but what you don’t realise is that they might he over doing it as an act to cover something up.
Don’t ignore something unusual just because you are having fun. This is a major red flag that your partner might be cheating on you.
5. Vague details
When you ask them about their day and they tell you the most basic things like what time they woke up and what they ate for lunch.
Whereas they used to tell you the minutest detail before and now they are giving you details with gaps in the day.
And after that goodnight text you see them online somewhere else? Please, take the bloody hint.
Let’s accept it, once you are in a relationship, suddenly no one really cares about how they look or anything related to that.
You are absolutely fine wearing shorts and sweatshirt with messy hair. But suddenly your partner is looking all good and sharp on a daily basis and you have no idea why this is happening?
I suggest you to do some research for you own sake.
7. Checking out others
Your partner should only have those flirtatious eyes for you.
If your partner has the audacity to look at someone else’s butt while you are sitting or standing right beside them then freaking walk away.
No one should treat you like that. Gauge their eyes out. Yeah okay, I’m just kidding. Just leave them.
If you ever get the feeling that your partner is cheating on you, please don’t overlook that. Your intuition can be more accurate than you think.
Don’t act like some paranoid though. Get your facts right. If you are getting a little insecure, talk to them nicely. And if they don’t care about it, dump their ass right there.
You deserve to be treated right and to be freed of your issues. Things will be better with proper communication. Prioritize yourself and lead a happy life.